For everything in this life you have to pay. Women's universe of love and beauty For what everyone has to pay
Everyone has heard that you have to pay for everything in life. But not everyone knows why this should be done. In today's article, we will try to understand this issue.
Free cheese only happens in a mousetrap
This folk wisdom says that after receiving something without payment, some kind of punishment in the form of a negative event or other trouble will surely follow.
Why is this happening?
Because this violates one of the important laws of the universe, which says: "You have to pay for everything". And there are penalties for breaking the law.
Nothing in this life goes unpaid. Look carefully at the word "free". Do you notice anything? “Free” literally means “the demon pays”. That is, if you do not pay, then "he" will do it for you. And "he", as you know, will not remain in debt, and will definitely get his money back from you, and even with large interest.
It is for this reason that people have always tried to pay, to give at least a couple of kopecks, in order to pay off the “unclean”, if they received something free of charge, even from acquaintances or relatives.
But this good old tradition goes back centuries. Around divorced a huge number of "lovers of freebies" and "profit at someone else's expense." To the call "Free!" flock faster than requests for help.
Well, our people are very fond of "freebies", what can I say. This is especially noticeable on the Internet. Nowhere else in the world, except for the CIS countries, there is such a huge number of requests to search engines about this.
Word "for free" enter into the search 155 million (!) times a day according to Yandex! And this is ALL the population of Russia!
"Watch for free"- 57 million hits!!!
"Free download"— 52 million!!!
Just think about these numbers! What a huge number of people do not want to pay! Millions of people every day of God entrust "unclean forces" to do this for them! And then they are surprised: “Why are there so many problems in my life?”, “Why do I live in poverty?”, “Why do I need all this?”
That's it for this. Because you have to pay for everything.
And I used to have such a sin, I will not hide it. I downloaded all sorts of programs, movies, music. But once the information reached me WHY you have to pay for everything, I was deeply imbued with it, and since then I stopped doing it.
We have been living in Germany for a long time, the mentality is different here, and people are used to paying for everything since childhood. They are taught this from childhood. And explain WHY. The Germans PAY FOR EVERYTHING, which is probably why they live so well.
If they need music, they go to the store and buy it, or they order it online and PAY. We need a film, a program - the same thing. No one would even think to look for it for free!
People here know that you have to pay for everything and do it with pleasure. You just try to give something to a German for free or as a gift - with this you will greatly surprise and puzzle him.
Let me give you a small example.
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We have two small dachas - one for flowers and beauty, for the soul, in general, and the other for fruits and vegetables, with greenhouses, for the benefit of the cause, so to speak. My wife Alena “manages” the “flower” dacha, and I take care of the cucumber-tomatoes.
So. And there, and there we always have an abundance and there are surpluses. And we, like Russian souls, are accustomed to sharing with neighbors and friends for free.
But it was not there? On our offer to accept a bouquet or tubers of flowers, seedlings or surplus crops, we ALWAYS heard the same question: “How much do you want ?!”
— Not at all! This is a gift! We ALWAYS answered.
—?! No, that will not do!
- Why?!
- I MUST pay.
That's where all the salt is! They should, they just MUST do it. That's how they were taught.
And no matter how hard we tried to give all this “from the bottom of our hearts”, nothing worked out for us. Even if we refused to take money, they ALWAYS brought "presents" - chocolates, champagne, sweets for children ... Or put money under the door 🙂
Now to the question "How much do you want for this?" we always answer: "As much as you see fit."
Another example.
I lost my wallet with money here three times, Alena - once I forgot my wallet in the store. And what do you think - they brought it home to me twice (!), once I took it from the police! And, oh miracle! - ALL the money was in place, to a single cent! And Alena, after a couple of hours, came to her senses and went to the store - the sellers were already there, smiling, waiting - some man found a wallet and gave it to the cashier. With all content, of course.
That's the whole difference. What is good for a Russian is death for a German 🙂
Friends, you have to pay for everything in life.
Pay for everything and teach it to your children. Pay with pleasure and gratitude! And then, by the way, more and more things will appear in your life for which you can be grateful.
Pay and prosper!
Artur Golovin
Interesting
”we had a discussion of an interesting question, how does money come to me, which means it’s a freebie, just like that, which means you have to pay for it, pay dearly ...
Is it so? What do you have to pay for? And how?
And it all started with this comment...
in general, it’s understood that it’s important to write ... “so many dollars have been credited to the account” ... it came with an internal protest and a clear thought ... it’s important where and for what this money comes to me ... for some reason I don’t want to just receive money into the account, this triggers the feeling that they will have to pay expensive prices ... I choose to receive for my contribution to something creative and worthy, to something beloved and interesting, to something alive and bright ... to something growing and potential ... but in a phrase that I originally wrote “there are so many dollars on the account” there is some kind of energy of expectation of a freebie, manna from heaven ... it in itself is not only a completely detrimental feeling, but it is not my choice to completely and completely rely on it)
I love good comments that make you think. Thanks for them :-)
Therefore, once again essence of the game(you can sign up for the game) - to be fed with a sense of abundance, to allow yourself even the thought that there may be enough money, or more than enough (or just the feeling “I have money” - for someone and this will be a breakthrough), understand why you need money. So, I have an understanding only now, namely a real, tangible understanding of what exactly this money is for. It didn't exist before.
And once again - in every possible way to revive the feeling of positive abundance, namely from the side of money. And then ask yourself - how can I manifest it in real life? What can I do about it? What can I do, create, offer to the world, to the people around? What can I build my abundance out of? What is my value and uniqueness? And to explore this topic, at the same time open up to new possibilities, while at the same time letting go of old restrictions.
Let me give you an example from the course. The girl worked as a sales manager, an ordinary manager who is closer to the seller in Russia. She didn’t complain that her position was somehow not like that, she didn’t work carelessly, but really helped clients find what would suit them. About six months later, one of the clients lured her to work in his design studio, with a higher salary and a completely different position.
And during these 4 years, while she works as an art director, she visited various exhibitions, learned how to work with customers, write articles, and so on and so forth, even managed to win a trip to the Olympic Games.
But I would like to talk about this another time. Because here it is important to overcome stereotyped thinking, old stereotypes and really open up to new things and use opportunities.
So, back to the phrase - you will have to pay dearly for this.
Strange as it may seem, it is true. The law of fair exchange says that there is no freebie, energy must be exchanged, and not taken or given just like that.
It turns out that you have to pay for everything. Everything has a price. But what?
For example, if you want to move to another country, you will have to:
- adapt to new conditions and circumstances, be flexible and open to change.
- accept accept and respect another culture, another way of life. Learn to accept and understand people of a different culture, their mentality, features.
- Speak fluently in a foreign language.
And so on. What is the price of this?
Many have a phrase - you have to pay, you have to pay for everything, there are negative feelings and associations , - that you will have to pay with suffering or perhaps sacrifice something, give up something so that something else comes, or you have to pay with the loss of something, for example, loss of health, punishment or something else (we are a lot of fiction), that you will have to pay with pain and tears, some kind of punishment.
You have to pay for femininity by renouncing activity, activity, etc. You have to pay for spirituality by renouncing the material. For a lot of money, abandoning the family ... There is a very good parable “Masha and the Universe” on the topic (you can search on the Internet, author Yulia Rubleva).
Is it so? Is this price really required?
It turns out that you have to pay, but the price is completely different.
If we want to reach a different level of income, then we also need to get out of our comfort zone, and be flexible, and change our beliefs, our habits, act differently, develop our financial thinking ... work with cash flow in a variety of ways ...
If we want changes, then they also have their own price - at least let go of the old, everything that we want to give up and the willingness to accept the new. Not everyone is ready to do this because of security, stability, fear, etc.
If we want to be a woman, then we also need to “pay”, our own, affordable fee - to understand ourselves, manage our emotions, listen to ourselves and our inner voice, be attractive, joyful, so that we want to communicate with you, and so on and so forth ... to build our own woman's way.
If we want to be happy, then we need to accept this happiness into our lives, understand ourselves, understand which way makes me happy, plunge into the inner state of happiness, and not suffer for it in all possible and impossible ways.
Recently I was told: “you are lucky, now you have a website and everything is on it.” To which I asked, what is luck? And what exactly am I lucky about? It didn't land on my head. I also pay for him, with a lot of work. Even for each article I pay with labor, time, energy. It’s not enough to write it, I can write it in an hour or two, although again here you need to catch a rush of inspiration or scoop it up in something, promote an idea or simply systematize your experience, sit down and describe it ... But you also need to print it, chastise it in such a way that it was clear, perhaps, to remove something, add something, pick up pictures, put them on the site, send them through a mailing service, for which you need to pay (money) ...
And it's all work. And this work also has its own price - time, effort, money, thinking, action, your invested energy, willingness to take risks, willingness to open up and trust, inner work and transformation, mental work, searching for answers to inner questions, etc.
However, not everyone is willing to pay. Many expect to receive it “just like that” (here I am no exception, I also expected that everyone would come and give me just like that, because I am good :-)). Without doing internal work, without working with soul and heart, hands, head, without doing external work - the next step, and then one more, one more ...
It is not necessary to plow, not necessarily a lot, hard, exhausting yourself. No, it is important to leave this paradigm in the past, where it now belongs. But within the power, within the power of everyone. Who has what tasks, dreams - it means that they are able to do everything that is necessary for their implementation. It means that there are all resources, first of all, internal resources, which means that there are skills, abilities, energy, there are desires, there is time, there are some material resources, there are arms and legs and a head on my shoulders, there is a heart prompting “I go there”, there is a voice with which you can declare yourself, express your intention aloud ... Everything is there, the main thing is to use it, apply it to the process of life.
What are you willing to pay to change your financial situation? For fulfilling your dreams? For change? For happiness?
All joy in every day,
Evgenia Medvedeva
“You have to pay for everything in life” - the phrase, although hackneyed, has not lost its relevance and deep essence from this. And we will not be mistaken in raising it to one of the cornerstones on which not only relations among people, but also all living things are based.
General mutual settlement
A child is born, he is looked after, fed, taught, everything is done so that he grows up healthy and adapted to life in society. Parenthood at its finest. It turns out parents with their care for something and someone repay .
The man has made a career. Serving a number from 9 to 18, one could not even dream of high steps in the career ladder. For success paid for with additional courses in the profession, overtime at work, out-of-the-ordinary efforts and even a deal with conscience .
Asking for a small favor from a neighbor, we know in advance that the moment will come when we will have to pay back.
Wherever you look, everywhere and for everything in life you have to pay. And not only in the store for food, clothes and equipment, but taxes for the fiscals, but GENERALLY FOR EVERYTHING! And as you pay, you will receive.
If you want order in your home, pay with cleaning efforts; happy relationships - understanding and compromise; dashing to drive a car - the experience of an accident; prestigious job - disappointment and experienced rudeness at the interview.
Insolence is not the second happiness
Without paying the full measure, we steal. And we rob, rather, not so much of the "sucker" as of ourselves. And this is followed by punishment.
An example is the sea. Here are a couple of them.
Marina decided to intrigue against Zhanna, her rival for the vacant position of the head of the department. And paid off. Thanks to the “advertising”, the director drew attention to Zhanna, who did not even think about a new place, and she became the head of poor Marina. Why "poor", it is clear without words.
Uncle Vasya was immensely delighted, picking up the banknotes that had fallen out of the pocket of a passerby. The next day, his jacket and wallet were stolen from his car. There was a paycheck.
And not necessarily retribution follows immediately and proportionately. Look around, how many people are around, taking everything at once, regardless of others. And how many of them are unfortunate, offended by the whole world and punished by fate ("/unhappy?").
And according to observations, in most cases, harm is done by themselves at the mental level. The same uncle Vasya left his wallet in the car, although he had never done this before. I wonder why?
Why do you have to pay for everything?
Everything in nature strives for balance (“balance. How not to lose a foothold”):
- water flows where it can stop;
- the mountain crumbles to the point where the grains of sand have nowhere to fall;
- animals and people - to blissful doing nothing.
Letting everything take its course, where do you think you will end up? After all, even a sofa - a symbol of idleness - needs to be bought for something.
The more you want out of life, the more you have to pay. And the trick in the form of theft does not work here. Payment - only with your hard-earned money, otherwise - a harsh punishment.
This is where the root of "disinterested" care for children, elderly parents, loved ones and friends. Pure business!
Paid for the yacht too
Well, why do people who “cut down” money dishonestly and sail on luxury yachts in warm regions feel so at ease?
First, let's answer the question: are we too satisfied living on our salary and spending holidays in the resorts of Turkey / at their summer cottage / just at home?
For some, our life seems almost like a fairy tale. But only we know whether we live so luxuriously and whether the price paid is commensurate with what we receive.
Now let's transfer our situation to the "happy" oligarchs and draw conclusions.
You have to pay for everything in life. And not necessarily money or service. Most often, sincere gratitude and readiness to return good for good are enough (“Yours and will give the joy of life”).